I’ve been searching for something better than Bonnie & Clyde since they were a bit violent. A duo that has each other’s back no matter what they face. They care about one another deeply and share a world that no one else is a part of; genuine unconditional love so rare in the world we live in. I’ve always wanted to be someone’s Bonnie and have them be my Clyde but my search has been unsuccessful.
Lately I’ve been addicted to television series Bones (I rarely watch television unless it’s football season). I can identify with character Angela Montenegro; free spirit, creative and compassionate. I love all of the characters for the most part but Angela is closest to who I am. What I enjoy most about this show is the relationship shared by Bones and Booth. It was rough in the beginning but they truly compliment and balance each other. Their connection is amazing and it’s quite interesting to watch their interactions. I get that it’s only a television show but the entire show is fascinating and well written.
Now instead of Bonnie searching for Clyde, I’m Bones (well sort of LoL) searching for Booth. Someone who is strong, intelligent, supportive, loyal and will accept me just as I am; I will reciprocate the same.
Most people often wish for a good man/woman but have difficulty creating a definition of what a good man/woman is; I can honestly say I am half way there thanks to Bones & Booth. Hey inspiration comes in many forms and sometimes you just have to go with it!
Here I go out into the world in search of my very own Booth!
Love, Peace & Blessings…
I’ve heard too many people make this statement, “It’s better to stick with the devil you know…” I can’t stress enough how it pains me to hear or read this statement. What an awful admission of giving up, giving in, admitting defeat etc. When you stick with the devil you know, you have made a decision to give up on your happiness, your dreams and living a fulfilling life. Why would anyone make this choice willingly? People make this choice because they are either afraid of happiness because it will create change or feel that they do not deserve happiness.
The toughest challenge in life is to honestly “face” yourself. I was afraid of change but I finally became tired of the way things were and began to embrace change. Here is a better statement, “If you do what you’ve always done, you will get what you’ve always gotten.” Without change you will not grow; without growth you will never reach your full potential; if you never reach your full potential your life will have been in vain.
Today I challenge you to look within, determine what will create bountiful happiness in your life and take small steps to achieve your happiness. YOU deserve to be happy, YOU deserve balance, YOU deserve to give and receive love, YOU deserve to be authentically who you are without fear of not being accepted and YOU deserve to leave your positive imprint in our world.
Once you believe happiness is possible, pay it forward and help motivate someone else; this will further increase your happiness. YOU can do this! If you get stuck along the way remember you are NEVER alone; reach out and the hand you NEED will help you continue your journey.
Wishing you great Love, Peace & Blessings…
I’m feeling gray…blah…uninspired…lethargic…bored…and probably anything else synonymous with the aforementioned words. I’ve been wishing for something “magical” to happen but I don’t have a clue as to what I want it to be. I want to experience life but don’t know where or how to begin. I want things to change but I don’t know specifically what I want to change.
Someone asked me “If you could do anything at all worry-free what would it be?” guess what, I searched for an answer and could not come up with anything. I know I want things to change but that is as far as my list goes. I want to meet new people, learn new things, have new experiences but I’m so lifeless and don’t have the energy to begin.
The great news…I am NOT depressed or anxious; I’m simply uninspired.How can I “fix” what I cannot identify? I’m looking all over for inspiration; looking for the light bulb to light up but nothing is happening…the “room” is still dim.
When I am creating my energy level is high but unfortunately I have a “regular job” which is unfulfilling and it seems to be “stealing” my energy. After years of giving so many so much of myself, perhaps I should have saved something for myself!
I can’t change the past but I can certainly change my present…Problem is there is not one thing I can follow consistently; it all becomes boring after a while.
Guess I’ll just keep digging…
Some days there’s no fun in being a square peg trying to fit in a round hole…
Just in case you are not sure about what I mean…here is a reference from Wikipedia:
A square peg in a round hole is an idiomatic expression which describes the unusual individualist who could not fit into a niche of his or her society.
Still waiting for something magical to happen…two hours left for today and I am still hopeful. 🙂
Love, Peace & Blessings…