I’ve been ridiculed most of this lifetime and now that I am older, I can see there are different sets of rules for people who consider themselves “normal” and people like me who walk our very own unique, individual path.
People who usually dish out crap, certainly don’t appreciate when it’s thrown back to them. LoL People who use the term “oh just get over it already and move on” want empathy when it’s their turn to feel bad or experience something that is NOT so easy to move on from.
I’ve always been fascinated by humans especially how some things are ok for some but not for others…
Here’s the thing…I’m so grateful that I’m no longer the soft-hearted, walk-all-over-me HSP, INFJ/INFP, Empath that I used to be and people are beginning to learn to keep their crap to themselves instead of trying to give it to me. I’m still the HSP, INFJ/INFP, Empath I’ve been created to be however, I will put you in your place if you even think of trying to get at me!
Needless to say, my circle of people has dwindled to almost nothing…which is ok by me because I don’t want to be around people who don’t love and accept me as I am…all of me.
Let today’s spilled thoughts remind you to ALWAYS stand up for yourself! Yes it will feel uncomfortable if you are a newbie at standing up for yourself but trust that…
- standing up for yourself…gets easier the more you do it
- standing up for yourself…becomes a natural process for you
- standing up for yourself…FEELS GREAT
People like to share their crap but it doesn’t mean you have to accept it. Do what feels right to you; honoring yourself always. Now I’m not suggesting that you become aggressive or confrontational but you deserve to honor, support and love yourself completely. Most of all, you do NOT deserve to be handed crap from anyone; no matter who they are!
Oh and…don’t forget to stand up for the those who may not be able to stand up for themselves (i.e.; seniors children, animals…). I mastered standing up for others as a child but sort of just learning to really stand up for myself…flabbergasting isn’t it? LoL
And Hey Beautiful Spirit…You’ve got this! 🙂
As always sending you great Love, Peace & Blessings….